I feel that i haven't written for centuries.Back to writing :)
Words are heard when we talk. Yea we all know that,but sometimes we hear them without talking, and they are more easy when it's not out from our lips.When we say a word we have to be careful what that word means and how the other person will get it. There are lots of precautions. Those precautions make me feel that silence is gold .It's amazing when you find someone hears your words without talking ,feels your pain and also realize what you need.If you found that person,then make sure that you really found a treasure.Don't ever let him go even if you had to tie him next to you then do it.Don't ever hurt him. . Don't ask for more than being with him. Don't let him go. Don't lose him.
I believe that everyone find that person in his life,but the matter is if you lost him or not.
Soul mates isn't the topic that i really want to talk about. There is something else i want it to get out of my head ,so i will let it be out.
I am really sick of people that says just words and doesn't even think if there are real or not. like saying you like honesty then you lies or even when you say that you like something then you break it. All of that makes me mad. That they think they are not lying they just not telling the truth. LOL yea right you are not lier.Why people say lots of words and like to say "blah blah blah....." then oh sorry i didn't mean to.If you didn't mean to why you said it why you didn't think before you say that words.
Do people like just talking??!! Is that what make them comfortable? or that words are the reality to them. We are all humans and it's not big deal to say something wrong. The bad thing is when you don't admit that you were wrong or when you admit that and on the other side no one believe you any more.
Can we just give our selves just a beak ,learn forgiving, live the wonderful moments together and have a great time.
Of course we have to appreciate words,but we have also to give each other a chance to talk without pressure.Then there won't be lies and anything from that.The lies come when someone is under pressure. We have to know also that when someone lies he do so as the truth is painful. Even the truth is painful you have to say it unfortunately ,as it's better than we lose your respect and confidence....
Words are heard when we talk. Yea we all know that,but sometimes we hear them without talking, and they are more easy when it's not out from our lips.When we say a word we have to be careful what that word means and how the other person will get it. There are lots of precautions. Those precautions make me feel that silence is gold .It's amazing when you find someone hears your words without talking ,feels your pain and also realize what you need.If you found that person,then make sure that you really found a treasure.Don't ever let him go even if you had to tie him next to you then do it.Don't ever hurt him. . Don't ask for more than being with him. Don't let him go. Don't lose him.
I believe that everyone find that person in his life,but the matter is if you lost him or not.
Soul mates isn't the topic that i really want to talk about. There is something else i want it to get out of my head ,so i will let it be out.
I am really sick of people that says just words and doesn't even think if there are real or not. like saying you like honesty then you lies or even when you say that you like something then you break it. All of that makes me mad. That they think they are not lying they just not telling the truth. LOL yea right you are not lier.Why people say lots of words and like to say "blah blah blah....." then oh sorry i didn't mean to.If you didn't mean to why you said it why you didn't think before you say that words.
Do people like just talking??!! Is that what make them comfortable? or that words are the reality to them. We are all humans and it's not big deal to say something wrong. The bad thing is when you don't admit that you were wrong or when you admit that and on the other side no one believe you any more.
Can we just give our selves just a beak ,learn forgiving, live the wonderful moments together and have a great time.
Of course we have to appreciate words,but we have also to give each other a chance to talk without pressure.Then there won't be lies and anything from that.The lies come when someone is under pressure. We have to know also that when someone lies he do so as the truth is painful. Even the truth is painful you have to say it unfortunately ,as it's better than we lose your respect and confidence....
oh Alaa :( ..It seems you have been through a hard experience lately :( :(
ReplyDeleteYour words are wise,a view from the ideal world.But we are in real life.People don't just lie because they are under pressure,some people might find it interesting,some people might not even notice that they are lying.
And if their lies were just words that would be fine,we can understand this,but when people lie in their feelings , this is much more painful.
That's life,full of contradictions,full of truth and full of lies,full of happiness and full of sadness.
We just need to adapt ourselves to live in it,we have to learn from what we face so as to be able to survive.
For me,I don't over-trust anybody,I don't over-believe anybody,cause anything is expected from anyone :)
Sorry if I'm not optimistic in that thing,but life is not that pinky rose :(
It's life you may not find a person that never lies but as you said the matter is to confess .. By the way you are completely right .. but not to trust anyone and not to believe anyone its something so hard as we can't live alone we always need people beside us you may live with them and not to trust them in everything but by the time you will find your self used to believe them and even you know that they are lying you just forgive them because you just loved them ...
ReplyDelete@ Amira
ReplyDeleteIt was really hard.I was just thinking that the ideal world is the real one ,but lately every thing is clear.As you said " life is not that pinky rose".You told be before not to lose hope, so i won't lose hope.The life will be as i imagined before :)(at least my virtual world).
@Sarah
That's right sarah "you will find your self used to believe them and even you know that they are lying you just forgive them because you just loved them ...". That thing makes me feel that it's stupid from us to do so ,but that's something you can hardly avoid. Some times it's a good stupidity and some times you will be hurt.The question that we should ask our selves before "Does that person deserve that?"
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ReplyDeletepeople are so weird sometimes you feel that they love you sometimes you feel as all their tasks are just deceiving you. it so hard to know if they deserve your love and forgiveness by time you may guess ! .. btw sometimes u will feel that u fed up .. but if you know that they didn't love you so why you still with them and then think if they deserve or not here you are the liar .. btw u aren't from those persons and i love you :D
ReplyDelete:$:$ The last sentence is the most wonderful one ,as now i am sure that my love to you isn't one side love :).
ReplyDeleteYea we can guess if the person deserves that or not or we can imagine our life without him will you stand it without him? Is he VIP in your world? :D.I was always dealing with people with the statement that says "Give them your trust until the opposite is preferred".That not really a good one :(.
even i decided not to deal by this "Give them your trust until the opposite is preferred" but i always forgot :D
ReplyDeletesometimes you have to meet the wrong persons to appreciate the right persons. quote i liked :)
msh moshkla 5alena nbos l nesf el kob el mlyan :D
the first sentence is the most wonderful one :D :X
May Allah bless you :):)
Oh Alaa ! Have u been reading to Confucius lately :O :O ??
ReplyDeletejust kiddin :D
nice article btw i read it 4 times till now and i cannot understand any thing :'( i feel so stupid :'( :'(
this is harder than graphs and dynamic programming :'(
kidding again also :D :D lool
here comes el klam el gad ba2ah :D
nice article walahy :) i liked ur way of analysis to what is around of you :) rare are those who do so those days :)
try to keep that habit of meditation :) coz once we loose it, we loose our souls :'( ask me about it !!
but don't take much pressure, this is all normal in our world of cruelness :)
we just have to survive with our souls above this common realm :)
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.....u know what i mean ..................
ReplyDelete@Mohamed
ReplyDeleteThanks God that you couldn't understand :D :D :D ..I haven't ever read about philosophy before not that i am proud of that :(.
Analyzing what is around of us is something most of us do and as you said it's good to keep that as we won't learn from our experience unless we think about it again and again :).
@Kareem
sincerely I don't know :D
يا سلاااااااااااام عالحكمة يا فندم و الهدوء
ReplyDeleteبس ايه موضوع
Don't ever let him go even if you had to tie him next to you
دا الحب حرية يا بنتى ليه كدا
:D:D:D
مفشي أحلى فعلاً من أنك تلاقى حد يفهمك من غير ما تتكلمى أياً كان مين بقى و فعلاً الناس لما بتوصل للمرحلة دى خسارة تخسر بعض
و بشأن موضوع الكلام دا حتفضل الناس تتكلم دايماً,و الكلام فيه الصادق و فيه الكذب,فيه المهم و فيه التافه,فيه اللى بيوصل لأحساسك و فيه لأ....كله حيفضل موجود و حنفضل نشوف كل دا
لازم نتعايش
على فكرة بالدصفة بسمع غنوة لمنير اسمها :اتكلموا
انا عارفة يا دينا ان الحب حرية بس من كتر ما بشوف ناس بتتهاون بانها تلاقي صديق بجد و مش مجرد صديق يعني من قربهم لبعض بيكونوا زي الاخوات و بمنتهي لسهولة بتنتهي صداقتهم لاتفه الاسباب
ReplyDeleteفانا شايفة بجد ان مفروض ان الانسان يتمسك بالصداقة طالما طبعا في الخير و مش لازم يربطه جامد اوي يعني يبقي يربطه براحة
:D :D :D
و بجد اجمل حاجة انهم يلاقوا بعض و يفضلوا مع بعض